In celebration for opening the doors to my membership Scale in Style…

... for the next few weeks, we are going to be talking about our body's -

Because I think in the swirl of shiny object entrepreneurialism we loose sight of our body, mind connection and the affect it has on the business we are building.

For as long as I can remember I felt uncomfortable in my body.

And that meant anytime I was meant to take the spotlight...

• Podcast Interviews
• Guest Expert Presentations
• Posting on Social Media Consistently
• Selling my Offers
• Sharing my Opinions (gasp what if someone disagreed)

I would break into a cold sweat.

All the fears of getting visible showed up and I shut myself down before I could even find out if all those fears of "no one caring" or "what if they don't think I'm good enough" could even be proven right...

And my confidence (what little I had) took a giant nose dive...

👇actual footage of me walking into my first mastermind retreat in 2019 lol👇

The prevailing advice is…  just keep showing up and it will eventually get easier.

This is not untrue (eventually you build up a sort of callus, so that feeling like a total failure hurts a little less but becomes something that you are also in constant fear of  happening again - yikes!) ...

...maybe that's just in my human design chart smh

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Here's my unpopular opinion:

That advice SUCKS big time!!

...and should be taken with a grain of salt.

Or a skinny marg with an entire brim of salt because you'll need it after the visibility hangover you'll experience following that unsupportive advice.

I would try, and try, and try to show up, stay consistent to get more clients…

But I’d watch myself back and cringe and would have to hype myself up for months before posting/launching/going live again.

There was something blocking my confidence muscle from growing big and strong like the other visible entrepreneurs I was so jelly of…

It was my ability to love myself unconditionally.

I worth was attached to:

... the way I looked

... how much people liked me

... how well I was following the invisible "successful entrepreneur" hand book 

The root cause?

Not being able to love, trust, or really know myself was keeping me invisible, insecure, and inconsistent.

I didn't feel safe to be seen… 

What if they thought I was a fraud.

What if I failed.

What if I succeeded.

I had no capacity to receive love.

No capacity to be seen as an expert.

I lacked the conviction (+ confidence) to keep showing up because I didn’t believe I was worthy of being seen.

So in honor of my former self who had the guts to finally love herself more - I created a safe space for you to finally fall in know, like and tryst with yourself.

If you are ready to shift the way you feel about your body for good… to finally feel ready to be seen without fear of judgment... then join me inside of my monthly membership:

Scale in Style 

You'll get immediate access to video lessons and worksheets to learn how to unconditionally love your body and step into the spotlight of your business with magnetic confidence without fear of being seen.

You'll also get access to tools like the Batch Wardrobe method, magnetic brand formula and bi-weekly embodiment and styling coaching calls (starting in June) to align your inside with your outside and avoid the visibility hangover for good.

With love + love + more love to give,

Trish Taylor

P.S. come say hi on IG @trishtaylor.co I LOVE getting to e-meet my online fam and love up their IG's